Bright Futures

7 and 8 Year Visits

Here are some suggestions from Bright Futures experts that may be of value to your family.

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How Your Family is Doing

  • Encourage your child to be independent and responsible. Hug and praise her.
  • Spend time with your child. Get to know her friends and their families.
  • Take pride in your child for good behavior and doing well in school.
  • Help your child deal with conflict.
  • If you are worried about your living or food situation, talk with us. Community agencies and programs such as SNAP can also provide information and assistance.
  • Don’t smoke or use e-cigarettes. Keep your home and car smoke-free. Tobacco-free spaces keep children healthy.
  • Don’t use alcohol or drugs. If you’re worried about a family member’s use, let us know, or reach out to local or online resources that can help.
  • Put the family computer in a central place.
    • Know who your child talks with online.
    • Install a safety filter.

Staying Healthy

  • Take your child to the dentist twice a year.
  • Give a fluoride supplement if the dentist recommends it.
  • Help your child brush her teeth twice a day
    • After breakfast.
    • Before bed.
  • Use a pea-sized amount of toothpaste with fluoride.
  • Help your child floss her teeth once a day.
  • Encourage your child to always wear a mouth guard to protect her teeth while playing sports.
  • Encourage healthy eating by
    • Eating together often as a family.
    • Serving vegetables, fruits, whole grains, lean protein, and low-fat or fat-free dairy.
    • Limiting sugars, salt, and low-nutrient foods.
  • Limit screen time to 2 hours (not counting schoolwork).
  • Don’t put a TV or computer in your child’s bedroom.
  • Consider making a family media use plan. It helps you make rules for media use and balance screen time with other activities, including exercise.
  • Encourage your child to play actively for at least 1 hour daily.

Your Growing Child

  • Give your child chores to do and expect them to be done.
  • Be a good role model.
  • Don’t hit or allow others to hit.
  • Help your child do things for himself.
  • Teach your child to help others.
  • Discuss rules and consequences with your child.
  • Be aware of puberty and changes in your child’s body.
  • Use simple responses to answer your child’s questions.
  • Talk with your child about what worries him.

School

  • Help your child get ready for school. Use the following strategies:
    • Create bedtime routines so he gets 10 to 11 hours of sleep.
    • Offer him a healthy breakfast every morning.
  • Attend back-to-school night, parent-teacher events, and as many other school events as possible.
  • Talk with your child and child’s teacher about bullies.
  • Talk with your child’s teacher if you think your child might need extra help or tutoring.
  • Know that your child’s teacher can help with evaluations for special help, if your child is not doing well in school.

Helpful Resources

Smoking Quit Line: 800-784-8669 | Family Media Use Plan: www.healthychildren.org/MediaUsePlan | Information About Car Safety Seats: www.nhtsa.gov/campaign/right-seat | Toll-free Auto Safety Hotline: 888-327-4236

Safety

  • The back seat is the safest place to ride in a car until your child is 13 years old.
  • Your child should use a belt-positioning booster seat until the vehicle’s lap and shoulder belts fit.
  • Teach your child to swim and watch her in the water.
  • Use a hat, sun protection clothing, and sunscreen with SPF of 15 or higher on her exposed skin. Limit time outside when the sun is strongest (11:00 am–3:00 pm).
  • Provide a properly fitting helmet and safety gear for riding scooters, biking, skating, in-line skating, skiing, snowboarding, and horseback riding.
  • If it is necessary to keep a gun in your home, store it unloaded and locked with the ammunition locked separately from the gun.
  • Teach your child plans for emergencies such as a fire. Teach your child how and when to dial 911.
  • Teach your child how to be safe with other adults.
    • No adult should ask a child to keep secrets from parents.
    • No adult should ask to see a child’s private parts.
    • No adult should ask a child for help with the adult’s own private parts.

Consistent with Bright Futures: Guidelines for Health Supervision of Infants, Children, and Adolescents, 4th Edition

For more information, go to https://brightfutures.aap.org.