Bright Futures

18 Through 21 Years

Here are some suggestions from Bright Futures experts that may be of value to your family.

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How You Are Doing

  • Enjoy spending time with your family.
  • Find activities you are really interested in, such as sports, theater, or volunteering.
  • Try to be responsible for your schoolwork or work obligations.
  • Always talk through problems and never use violence.
  • If you get angry with someone, try to walk away.
  • If you feel unsafe in your home or have been hurt by someone, let us know. Hotlines and community agencies can also provide confidential help.
  • Talk with us if you are worried about your living or food situation. Community agencies and programs such as SNAP can help.
  • Don’t smoke, vape, or use drugs. Avoid people who do when you can. Talk with us if you are worried about alcohol or drug use in your family.

Healthy Behavior Choices

  • Avoid using drugs, alcohol, tobacco, steroids, and diet pills. Support friends who choose not to use.
  • If you use drugs or alcohol, let us know or talk with another trusted adult about it. We can help you with quitting or cutting down on your use.
  • Make healthy decisions about your sexual behavior.
  • If you are sexually active, always practice safe sex. Always use birth control along with a condom to prevent pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections.
  • All sexual activity should be something you want. No one should ever force or try to convince you.
  • Protect your hearing at work, home, and concerts. Keep your earbud volume down.

Your Feelings

  • Most people have ups and downs. If you are feeling sad, depressed, nervous, irritable, hopeless, or angry, let us know or reach out to another health care professional.
  • Figure out healthy ways to deal with stress.
  • Try your best to solve problems and make decisions on your own.
  • Sexuality is an important part of your life. If you have any questions or concerns, we are here for you.

Your Daily Life

  • Visit the dentist at least twice a year.
  • Brush your teeth at least twice a day and floss once a day.
  • Be a healthy eater.
    • Have vegetables, fruits, lean protein, and whole grains at meals and snacks.
    • Limit fatty, sugary, salty foods that are low in nutrients, such as candy, chips, and ice cream.
    • Eat when you’re hungry. Stop when you feel satisfied.
    • Eat breakfast.
  • Drink plenty of water.
  • Make sure to get enough calcium every day.
    • Have 3 or more servings of low-fat (1%) or fat-free milk and other low-fat dairy products, such as yogurt and cheese.
  • Women: Make sure to eat foods rich in folate, such as fortified grains and dark-green leafy vegetables.
  • Aim for at least 1 hour of physical activity every day.
  • Wear safety equipment when you play sports.
  • Get enough sleep.
  • Talk with us about managing your health care and insurance as an adult.

Safety

  • Always be a safe and cautious driver.
    • Insist that everyone use a lap and shoulder seat belt.
    • Limit the number of friends in the car and avoid driving at night.
    • Avoid distractions. Never text or talk on the phone while you drive.
  • Do not ride in a vehicle with someone who has been using drugs or alcohol.
    • If you feel unsafe driving or riding with someone, call someone you trust to drive you.
  • Wear helmets and protective gear while playing sports. Wear a helmet when riding a bike, a motorcycle, or an ATV or when skiing or skateboarding.
  • Always use sunscreen and a hat when you’re outside.
  • Fighting and carrying weapons can be dangerous. Talk with your parents, teachers, or doctor about how to avoid these situations.

Helpful Resources

National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233

Consistent with Bright Futures: Guidelines for Health Supervision of Infants, Children, and Adolescents, 4th Edition

For more information, go to https://brightfutures.aap.org.